With heart..

Love, I reckon is not commerce. So conceivably, sincerity and truthfulness may not always fetch the prize they are worth. No amount of heart will win the girl over if she's plain not interested, and we can see this in the quite established pattern of women falling head over heels for cads.

Nevertheless, while love is neither sufficient nor even necessary condition for wooing with success, it sure makes one as convincing as one will ever be. Besides, women are such a bother at times. For a woman, being driven appeals to her greed for special pampering beyond the level of the mundance. In a more romantic age, being chauffeured is the equivalent of having a horse-driven coach and footman in attendance. And only the ones you sincerely, truely fancy, are ever worth the trouble.