Treasure what you have, and do not have. Man's biggest mistake in life is failing to see what is before them. Happiness only comes once in life. All the best my friend.
I used to think like you too. Let things fall into place. I left my loved one without a word because I had some personal issues to settle too. Things could have ended happily ever after. I later realized I was being selfish and irresponsible, taking for granted that she would understand and she would wait. We are both in our 50s now, neither married nor attached. But things will never be the same, damage done, I have ruined my love life, and the family that I could have started. All because I thought things would "fall into place". I thought time would solve whatever personal issues I had. Then I could get back to my love and we would live our lives together. And things would fall into place. But decision has to be made, things will never fall into place on their own. At least that was it for me.
Well, I just hope what you're doing now isn't hurting the other party, but since you said she doesn't know, then no harm done I guess.
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that is why marriage isn't an option for me. there isn't a girl who can make me want to sacrifice for her. have you found yours?
I have found her but she does not know yet. Better that way, because I need to settle some old issues before I can move on.
Treasure what you have, and do not have. Man's biggest mistake in life is failing to see what is before them. Happiness only comes once in life. All the best my friend.
To be happy is the choice I wish to make in spite of the circumstances that are strewn in my path. I kinda prefer to let things fall into place.
Btw do u have a blog?
I used to think like you too. Let things fall into place. I left my loved one without a word because I had some personal issues to settle too. Things could have ended happily ever after. I later realized I was being selfish and irresponsible, taking for granted that she would understand and she would wait. We are both in our 50s now, neither married nor attached. But things will never be the same, damage done, I have ruined my love life, and the family that I could have started. All because I thought things would "fall into place". I thought time would solve whatever personal issues I had. Then I could get back to my love and we would live our lives together. And things would fall into place. But decision has to be made, things will never fall into place on their own. At least that was it for me.
Well, I just hope what you're doing now isn't hurting the other party, but since you said she doesn't know, then no harm done I guess.
Yes, I used to have a blog.
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